Each year during these holiday issues I write about reflection, being thankful, and spending time with your family and friends. A few weeks ago, Arnold Palmer, an American icon, passed away. He was a legend who went way beyond the sport of golf. It seemed at times his sole mission was to make everyone he came in contact with feel like they were the most important person in the world.
But Mr. Palmer isn’t the golf story I want to tell. The story I want to tell you is about Eddie, a caddie at Peachtree Golf Club in Atlanta. Peachtree may not be as well-known as Augusta National, but it was built by Bobby Jones and one of the most exclusive clubs in America. It’s a truly special place.
About six months ago, my business partner John Pritchard and I were approached about sponsoring a foursome in a charity event at Peachtree. Without hesitation we said yes. However, the day before we were supposed to play, John had to cancel. I was able to take my oldest son Scottie. I didn’t realize how special this day would be until we pulled into the golf course and saw 100 years of history in a little club house on a beautiful piece of land. It struck me how fortunate we were to be there.
Once we checked in, we were introduced to Eddie. He greeted us with a lunch pail in one hand and a welcoming smile. But I’m nervous. I am getting more and more nervous for Scottie, and without realizing it, I am managing his every move.
On the fifth hole, I tell Scottie to hurry up. Then I tell him to pay attention. Eddie hears this transaction and reacts.
“Mr. Scott,” he says to me, “Walk down this fairway with me. I want to show you something most people miss.”
Scottie takes the cart and Eddie and I start walking. In a casual way, Eddie asks: “How many days a year do you get to spend a few hours like this with Scottie?”
That’s when it hits me like a sledge hammer. I admit to him those times are rare.
“You are on one of the most special golf courses in the world, with your 22-year old son,” Eddie says. “Stop worrying about everyone else and just enjoy him.” What a life lesson.
This Thanksgiving, when things are a little hectic, ask yourself how many times a year do you get to be with family and friends for a few hours? The holidays are stressful, but with just a little patience, they can become the best memories of our lives.
From the team at Repertoire we wish you a Happy Thanksgiving!
Scott Adams
Bt says
Great story Scooter! Happy Thanksgiving to all of the Adams!!
Brad Connett says
Awesome life lesson Scott – thanks for sharing!
Stephanie Flis says
Great reminder! Thank you and happy late Thanksgiving.